Someone Else's Shoes

Content Warning: This section of the guide contains discussion of gender discrimination.

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

1. How did you feel about the “switching lives” conceit of the book? Have you read other works that employ this narrative—e.g., Mark Twain’s The Prince and the Pauper?

2. Discuss Moyes's blend of humor and emotional depth. Which parts of the story did you find humorous or poignant? Are you interested in reading more by Moyes—e.g., Me Before You or The Giver of Stars?

3. Reflect on the contrasts between Sam and Nisha’s lives. Which character did you feel more drawn to and why?

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

1. Have you ever experienced a minor mix-up or coincidence that significantly changed your life? How did it reshape your perspective or direction?

2. Reflect on the novel’s exploration of the importance of friendship and support systems. Who has been your biggest supporter in life, and how have they positively impacted your journey?

3. Consider a time when your initial impressions of a person changed significantly after getting to know them better.